Thinking About An Adoption Plan?
Are you considering adoption? Despite the many misconceptions, modern adoption allows for more flexibility and freedom than ever before.
For example, did you know that the expectant mother gets to choose the adoptive parents for her child?
Adoption is a significant and sometimes challenging choice, but it can also be a rewarding option for both the birth mother and the child. Learn more to see if placing your child for adoption is the right path for you.
Understanding Adoption
Adoption is a lifelong commitment for everyone involved.
It legally transfers the rights and responsibilities of raising a child from the biological parents to the adoptive parents. Adoption is not a co-parenting arrangement; the adoptive parents are legally recognized as the child’s parents.
Why Consider Adoption?
Women choose adoption for various reasons, and each situation is unique. Here are some reasons why a birth mother may choose this option:
- She feels either too young or too old to parent.
- She is already raising other children and feels maxed out.
- She is in an unsafe relationship.
- She has no desire to be a mother.
- She wants to pursue educational or career goals.
- She needs more stability.
The Adoption Process
If you’re considering adoption, finding the right adoption coordinator is the first step. An adoption agency, a lawyer, or another adoption specialist could fill this role. Interview reputable organizations to find the best fit for you.
You won’t pay for adoption services and may even be able to receive financial assistance and material support for your pregnancy.
A reputable organization will never ask you for money in return for their services. Placing your child for adoption should not come at any cost to you. You should never feel pressured to place your child for adoption.
Once you’ve chosen your adoption coordinator, you will decide on an adoption plan. Here are three types:
Open Adoption
In an open adoption, you maintain open communication with the adoptive family and your child. You exchange identifying information and create a Contact Agreement outlining the amount and type of communication you want.
Keep in mind that open adoptions aren’t legally enforceable in Kansas. So, if you’re interested in this plan, you will want to find an adoptive couple who wants to maintain contact.
Semi-Open Adoption
In a semi-open adoption, also known as a mediated adoption, you still have contact with the adoptive family and your child, but your adoption coordinator will arrange all communication. This option provides more privacy for everyone involved.
Closed Adoption
If you prefer no contact with the adoptive family or your child, you can choose a closed adoption. The courts seal all records, and you remain anonymous. This type of adoption is less common today.
How Can We Assist You?
Facing an unplanned pregnancy can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone.
Schedule an appointment with us to discuss your situation and explore your options. We’re here to provide support every step of the way.
We look forward to helping you navigate this challenging time.
